This is going to sound very simplistic and totally obvious, but the process of planning your wedding and reception can take on a life of its own. Totally normal, compassionate and rational humans become transformed into strangers who seem to have very concrete opinions about seemingly innocent details like wedding cake frosting and boutonnieres. When you find yourself arguing with your beloved over the typeface on the invitations or the color of the cocktail napkins, it’s time to step out of the loop and be the couple you were before you were “A COUPLE”. Throw the dog in the car,take a drive to nowhere. Buy a bunch of weird food and try to cook it together. Go get four movies at the library, make a huge batch of manual popcorn and hibernate on the couch. Do ANYTHING that does not include discussing the wedding. Whatever it is you’re kvelling over is probably not as important as the fact that you found your person!