Your bridesmaids; you’ve picked them carefully because they mean so much to you. They will support you and help you and with any luck, they will not throw you a shower where you play games and eat jello. How can you thank them? Besides not picking dresses that make them look like the prom queens from hell…..

Gift certificates for manicures, pedicures, massages. Sushi, flowers when they don’t expect them, a subscription to their favorite magazine (not your favorite magazine). A six pack of little champagnes, so they can enjoy a glass by themselves, in the tub. Really beautiful soap that they wouldn’t buy themselves. A beading party so you can make cool stuff to wear at the wedding. A reading by a psychic; their astrological chart done by a pro.

Your deep gratitude….priceless.