Many of my brides want to use candles to enhance their ceremonies or receptions, but many sites will not allow open flames. A stellar solution is are the new “flameless” candles. My favorite, for the ceremony (to line a walkway at dusk? perfect!) is the Glade Wisp candle. It is a little bigger than a votive, has a flickering “flame”, and comes in a frosted holder. As a bonus, it also spritzes a fragrance every few seconds, so your walk up the aisle will be sweet in many ways! I discovered these babies through www.bzzagent.com, a cool “word of mouth” site, but you can discover them in your own neighborhood.